Constant fighting after marriage in Vedic astrology usually traces to one of three factors sitting in or on the 7th house of the birth chart: a weak or afflicted Moon there, a weak or afflicted Venus there, or a Mars-Ketu-Moon combination there, and the right response depends on identifying which one is actually active rather than reaching for a generic fix.
What does the Moon in the 7th house have to do with it?
The Moon governs the mind, mood, and emotional reactivity. When it sits in the 7th house of partnership and is debilitated or tightly afflicted by a malefic planet, the classical texts read it as a signature for irritability and spousal discord: small disagreements escalate faster, and the emotional temperature of the marriage runs hot more often than it needs to. This is a tendency written into the chart at birth, not a verdict on the relationship, and it shows up differently depending on what else is happening in that house.
Could it be Venus instead?
Venus is the karaka, or significator, for marriage itself, and a debilitated or afflicted Venus in the 7th house is read separately from the Moon signature above. Classical sources connect it to marital discord and, in some placements, to weaker judgment around the relationship generally. A chart can carry a Moon problem, a Venus problem, or both, and they do not point to the same remedy, which is why a real reading looks at each planet in the 7th house on its own terms before drawing a conclusion.
What if it is a Mars-Ketu-Moon combination?
A third, distinct signature is Mars, Ketu, and the Moon combining in the 7th house together. This is read as its own pattern, separate from either planet acting alone, and tends to show up as friction that feels sudden or hard to trace to a single cause, since three different planetary energies are colliding in the house that governs the "other person" in the relationship.
Is there one remedy that fixes all of this?
No, and this is worth saying plainly rather than dressing up a single fix as universal. The three drivers above are different placements with different mechanics, and the classical corpus does not offer one remedy that addresses all of them equally. What it does offer, as a broadly applicable piece, is worship or mantra directed to Shiva and Parvati, who are held as the traditional karakas, or governing deities, of conjugal happiness. This is not a substitute for identifying which factor is actually driving the friction in a specific chart; it sits alongside that identification, not in place of it.
What should I actually do first?
Start by finding out which of the three signatures, if any, applies to your own chart, since the Moon, Venus, and Mars-Ketu-Moon patterns call for different attention even though they can look similar from the outside as "we fight all the time." A chart reading looks at the 7th house, its ruling planet, and every planet sitting in or aspecting it together, not any one piece in isolation. Reading a list like this one can tell you what is possible; it cannot tell you what your own chart shows, because that depends on your exact birth details.
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